Or don’t give up. Go all in.
My Dad: “If you see a problem and you’re not part of the solution, then you’re part of the problem.”
Basically, if you can make things better, stop moaning and at least try.
(This also assumes you’re a properly adjusted individual)
Why is it “or”…? It’s as if the Verge has lost the ability to write a non-clickbait title.
And the answer is “both have” of course. The folks who make the game are as guilty as those who played it.